You get home after a long day, pour a glass of fine wine, light a candle, take a luxurious shower, moisturize with a $150 hydra-gel lotion, apply a nutritious hair mask, and then, just before crawling into your Egyptian cotton sheets, you open your pajama drawer to pull out…a t-shirt full of holes and some ex-boyfriend’s old boxers.

Does this sound familiar? We know how much you invest in self-care, from expensive gym memberships to the perfect bedroom lighting for optimal relaxation, so why is your pajama game still so weak? If you’re willing to spend $200 on a pair of slacks for work, why are you still so hesitant to get yourself a pair of proper pajamas? Looking your best isn’t for other people, after all. It’s for you. You deserve to go to sleep in soft, adorable PJs in the same way that you deserve to go out in your favorite little black dress.

Trust us, once you start investing in real pajamas, you’ll never go back to that ratty pair of sweat pants. Whether you’ll be wearing them curled up alone in bed with a good book or snuggled up with your partner for movie night, here are the best pajama sets to buy online right now.

Anthropologie: Eyes Of The World Shorts Sleep Set

Available at Anthropologie, these funky short-sleeved PJs were designed by Amy Voloshin, who runs the Philadelphia-based Printfresh which specializes in must-have retro pieces. Even better, all of Printfresh’s products are made sustainably, and the company has been committed to ethical production practices since they opened in 2017. Guaranteed to last, these ultra-soft PJs are sure to be your summer relaxation go-to.

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Everlane: The Washable Silk Pajama Set

Who doesn’t love the feel of silk? Unfortunately, it’s one of the most difficult fabrics to care for, as it can rarely be washed by traditional methods. Everlane has managed to solve that problem with these 100% silk and 100% washable PJ sets. We love this classic look, complete with a collar and buttons on top, and an elastic waist, relaxed fit bottom. The silk is luxurious and light, but completely opaque and can be washed with the rest of your clothes.

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Topshop: Blue Satin Ruched Cami Pajama Set

If you’re into the look and feel of satin without the price tag, this 100% polyester set feels just like satin but costs half the price. The ruched cami and button-up shorts make for an adorable baby doll look, while still being super comfy for sleeping.

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Universal Standard: Natalie Jersey Sleep Set

Nothing is softer than high-quality cotton, especially after a few washes. This pima cotton set is so soft, you have to touch it to believe it. Available in a wide range of sizes, this set includes a light v-neck cami featuring a tulip overlap at the back and super-stretchy shorts with a tulip overlap on the sides. We promise you’ll never want to take it off.

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Calvin Klein: CK One Matching Set

This matching set is just as comfy as your boyfriend’s old boxers and t-shirt, but twice as cute. Calvin Klein is known for their super-soft, stretchy loungewear, and this set is no exception. Plus, if you’re looking for something a little less feminine, this is a great option.

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ASOS: mix & match wild flower satin short sleeve shirt & short set

Who doesn’t love a satin PJ look for any weather? With the option to mix and match pants, shorts, long-sleeve or short-sleeve tops, and even a cami, these satin, floral pajamas from ASOS let you decide what kind of PJs are right for you.

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Desmond and Dempsey: The Jaguar Print Cream Signature Set

We love this luxurious British brand for their sustainable practices, unique prints, and focus on creating the best pajamas possible. You’ll be the hit of your next slumber party with these fierce Jaguar pajamas.

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The GAP: Poplin Striped Pajama Set

For a solid, basic option, where better to shop than the GAP? These white and blue striped PJs are classic for a reason. The light fabric is perfect for warmer summer months, and the design is so timeless you’re guaranteed to get years of use out of them.

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PRETTYLITTLETHING: Green Palm Pajama Set

This tropical, satin set from PRETTYLITTLETHING is another great warm weather option. Just picture how cute you’ll look in these sitting on your front porch drinking coffee in the morning?

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Target: Women’s 3 Piece Satin Notch Collar Pajama Set

We love the vintage vibes of this satin set, plus it comes with a matching sleep mask!

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